When you get into a relationship you might have some probs with your gf/bf becuz they do somethings you hate like drinking, smoking, drugs, ect. But you don't know how to tell them cuz you get scared. But if you really think of it they get worried about changing cuz they like how they have been for years.
When you are in a relationship you change all the time sometimes you can till, but sometimes you cant. Some ppl like the change so they go along with it perfectly. But then the ppl that don't like the change act like there is a prob...but the prob isn't you its how they change and they push it of on to you. They dump you cuz they are scared of the change thinking that ppl wont like the new them and hurt you and the only thing you can do...is move on. It hurts deeply thinking that it is all your fault even tho it wasn't you.